Red Deer resident Darwyn Brown feels like a brand new man these days.
A couple of years ago he weighed in at about 405 lbs. After some serious consideration and extreme concern for his health was expressed by his wife Roxy, he embarked on a complete life-change.
That included gastric bypass surgery this past spring.
Today, he weighs about 245 lbs. and wants to drop to about 200 lbs. or so.
Getting there hasnβt come without challenges, but he points to the importance of surrounding himself with a network of support from the get-go.
βThe surgery is not something you do on your own,β he explains, adding there is a local support group for those who have undergone gastric bypass surgery.
βAnd so much of it is about mind-set. For any kind of weight loss, with or without surgery, if your mind isnβt there itβs not going to work.
βThe surgery itself was a success β yes. Will it continue to be successful? Only I can determine that. If the mindset isnβt there, I can grow that stomach back to football size. Surgery is a tool, and should only be considered as a tool.β
But what a tool for better health itβs proven to be.
Darwyn went from taking 60 units of insulin a day to none.
βIβve been monitored by my doctor, and he says there is no need for it.β
Heβs also completely off of blood pressure and cholesterol medications as well. βIβm done with all the medication Iβve been taken for years. I take a multi-vitamin in the morning, and Iβm good.β
A struggle with serious sleep apnea has also been virtually cleared up as well. βAll the major medical issues of my life have been fixed.β
For Darwyn, who was raised on a farm near Hanna, the tendency to gain weight started early in life.
βI was always a large kid, always a big guy.β
When he graduated from Gr. 12, he weighed about 200 lbs.
After he married he found himself continuing to gain weight.
βThe cooking is good, and when you donβt have to do it yourself itβs even better,β he adds with a grin. βItβs like an unlimited freezer with food in it all the time.β
It also doesnβt help that society tends to create activities around food. Portions at restaurants continue to grow larger as well. And even though grocery stores are packed with all kinds of low-fat, low-carb foods, the battle of the bulge in general continues to escalate.
Meanwhile, Darwyn continues to enjoy the new freedom that being thinner has brought to his life. As of a few weeks ago, he weighed about 245 lbs. Heβs looking at 200 lbs. as a goal.
Of course, itβs not just about having a much smaller stomach. Darwyn makes sure he logs some 10,000 steps each day mainly from lengthy walks he takes most mornings.
βA year ago, I wouldnβt walk half a block because I was afraid Iβd fall over,β he recalls. βNow if I donβt get my walk in, my mood is bad. Iβm grumpy. Itβs a βwell-beingβ thing β I feel way better.
βEverything has changed,β he adds. βEverything in life has been re-arranged and re-organized. Itβs touched every part of my life, and itβs all better.β
These days, Darwyn is encouraging others who are facing the surgery or going through the adjustments following the procedure.
βI know the day after my surgery I had friends come from the weight loss surgery support group, and it really helped me.β
He, in turn, has visited several since.
βMe and my wife go together as a team,β he says. βShe tells them sheβs my support person, that she helped me get through this and that theyβll get through this.
βIβve provided encouragement and gotten encouragement back from those who have received the surgery.
βWithout that group dynamic, the surgery would be very tough to do,β he says.
βIt would be hard to do it on your own. Without support or accountability, how do you do it? We all need the fellowship, we all need to be together, we all need to be accountable.β
Darwyn Brown is pleased to answer questions anyone might have about his experience with gastric bypass surgery. He can be reached at 403-343-7614.
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